Thursday, July 31, 2014

Zennas first massage and snails!


July 31st
Mark, Zenna and I walked across the street for a massage last night. We each chose the oil massage and LOVED it but tonight might go back tonight for a Thai massage for something different.  They were only about $11/hour per person so I have a feeling it's something we will do a lot while we are here.  On the way back we grabbed some large snails from the grass for the girls to play with. Zenna named them Larry, Gary and Petey. They were adorable. 





Mark and I woke up early to have coffee and talk but the girls joined us soon after for breakfast. We are now getting ready for our 2nd day of teaching at Wide Horizons. 


Why Thailand? An introduction to our little adventure...

Hi everyone! 

Karman has been blogging like crazy and giving updates about this wonderful and crazy adventure we are on, and my one job was to write up an intro so that all of her blogs had some context. Well, I was late on doing it, so I'm sorry if it seems like we just somehow disappeared from Fargo and showed up in Thailand with no explanation. I'll try give a little background about how this little journey came about in the first place, and we'll fill in more details in the coming days via some additional posts.

So, why the heck are we here at the other side of the world anyway?  I guess it started about two years ago when I went to a social entrepreneur weekend retreat with about 20 other idealistic do-gooders (I was merely a wannabe compared to that amazing group of people) that were all very passionate about doing things that would make the world a better place in some way. I was inspired, and ended up meeting an amazing individual and the best school teacher on the planet, Beth Ekre. We discovered we both had a passion for wanting to teach young people (middle school, high school, and college aged) about empathy, giving service, gratitude, having the right mindset, and leaning the skills needed to identify a cause they were passionate about and then go do something about it. 

We wanted to also give them different perspective on the world in a global sense - one not centered around the latest iPhone or the current clothing trends, but rather one about communities not having clean water to drink so kids are missing school from illness, or evil human beings that believe trafficking young children (the same ages as our own kids) is okay to do. We wanted to do this in a way that could potentially be life-changing and perhaps inspiring to them. That's when Wildfire Youth Venture was born - a non-profit organization that works with and mentors students on practicing social entrepreneurship in both local and global causes. As parents of teens and pre-teens, we wanted our own kids (Syler, Caiden, Zenna, Meghan, and Clayton) to be involved in our new program from the get go and get many other kids in the 12-20 age range involved as well.

We had a terrific first year in which we worked with about 70 kids in our region to hold the first annual "Ultimate Life Summit - Fargo" (ULS) with our partners - Dakota Medical Foundation, the YMCA, the authors of 7 Mindsets (Scott Shickler and Jeff Waller), and West Fargo Public schools. Karman, our girls, and Beth's kids all joined and helped every step of the way, both for the ULS as well as spending hundreds of hours working on the Alexa's Hope Give to Live Challenge in November in which we made an attempt for a new Guinness World Record to sign up the most new organ donor registrations in an 8 hour period. Though we didn't set a new world record, we know it made a big difference for the hundreds of people that did sign up to be registered as organ donors, and we had a great time doing it. 

The next fall (Sept 2013), Karman joined along in the social entrepreneurship retreat. We heard from an older couple (one was a doctor) that had volunteered to give free care to those in need in developing countries around the world. They said it was the best thing they had ever done in their lives - it was fulfilling, exciting, fun, and it made them happy to be making a big difference in the lives of others. We asked them and the rest of the group whether they thought we should bring our kids and do it as a family. It was an overwhelming "yes" from everyone at the retreat. That was the spark about 10 months ago that got us thinking about putting together this trip and taking our kids with us. We merged this idea together with what we were doing with our Wildfire project and things eventually came together on it.

So, why Thailand?  Well, because our first concern was the safety of our kids, we wanted to be sure we had a recommendation from someone we trusted that had been to the place we would end up going. A dear friend of ours, Than Baardson, heads up a wonderful organization called Unseen Ministries located in Fargo. If you haven't visited their website, look them up as they are doing great work around the world in addressing poverty, hunger, and child trafficking - all causes that Karman, Beth, and I wanted to do something about - whatever form that may take. 

So, Than had been to where we are now as part of one of his mission trips, and he said this would be a great fit for us - relatively safe, kid friendly, and most certainly in great need of some things we could possibly help with. Plus, he gave us some great contacts here, Kara Bennet and Salinee Tavernan (they run Grace Garden), that have been wonderful to work with in helping us put together a great itinerary of training sessions and meetings with regional healthcare, education, sustainable energy, and not for profit organizations throughout the region (primarily in the city of Mae Sot and the nearby village of Noh Bo).  Beth was hoping to come, but plans didn't work out, but she was a huge help in preparing. She, however, plans to go next year for sure (yes, we would love to make this something we would like to do regularly, if possible). 

So that is how we this all came about. It has been quite an adventure just in the planning for this trip, which we started doing in earnest about 4 or 5 months ago. And now we're actually here, and the adventure just got amped up about 10 notches. We will share more details on what all we are doing during this three week trip to the "Land of Smiles" in some upcoming blog posts, including what we are contemplating as our more-than-a-little-bit-crazy "big vision" for this might become. No, mom and dad, we are not moving to Thailand (that was the next question I'm sure). We'll tell you more about that soon. This post is plenty long enough already.   

คืนที่ดี, ("good night" in Thai)
- Mark

Wednesday, July 30, 2014

Class at Wide Horizons in Mae Sot (Thursday July 31st)

We spent the morning with Mark watching and helping photograph the Social Entrepreneurship course he is teaching in Mae Sot. I'm so proud of this man. He lights up when he is doing this work. The students are all quietly trying to take in all the new information. The brave ones raise their hand when he asks questions and we reward them with chocolate or Starburst. They know some English but Mark needs to speak slowly and explain everything by using examples to help them understand. He's doing incredible. 




We took a break for lunch at noon and had a wonderful meal of Burmese food with the students. Syler was starting to feel sick. Her and I both have sore throats and she hasn't been sleeping well because of the Jet lag so Kara drove us back to the hotel so she could rest. Caiden and Zenna stayed to help Mark lead the students in some team building and ice breaker games after lunch and to help with the rest of today's class. 
Mark's luggage did not arrive yesterday as we'd hoped so he is wearing the same clothes for the fourth day.  We are calling it his uniform. He also left his phone charger in our Bangkok hotel. Luck is not on his side. 









Arriving in Mae Sot: Wednesday, July 30


We flew to Mae Sat this morning on a smaller airplane and were met at the airport by Kara. We squeezed into her truck and she brought us to a hotel she found for us that had a family room. Once we secured a cot it will now fit us perfectly.  The girls were excited to see the lizards running around the walls at check in and counted 69 street dogs between the airport and the hotel. The definitely have animal control issues here. 
We drove to the Sun Sawany offices and got to see the solar panels and converters they are creating and installing to bring electricity to rural villages.


Then we had lunch (chicken soup with noodles seemed the most safe) with the group and also got to meet Salinee.  Afterwards we went back to our hotel for a nap and a little travel recovery until Kara came to take us to dinner. She took us to a great little Pad Thai place that we all loved (Zenna liked) that cost close to $6 to feed all 6 of us. Then we watched Kara, some locals and NGO's play soccer 'football' and were invited to play but the jet lag is setting in so we were all way too tired.

This little cutie pulled a chair up next to Caiden and couldn't get close enough. She was adorable. She was also rocking out to the music playing especially when Mark would join her. 

We are heading to bed now at the hotel and it's only 9:15pm here but
we can hardly hold our heads up. 


Tuesday, July 29, 2014

Good Morning Bangkok!

I'm sitting on the patio of our hotel in Bangkok. I'm so happy that I brought Starbucks coffee packets so I could make myself a cup and take it all in before everyone else gets up. It's very humid at 6:30am. 82 degrees and feels like 88. It reminds me of Mexico.

One Night in Bangkok keeps the hard man humble...

32 hours after we left home we are safely tucked into our hotel rooms in Bangkok for a short 5 hour rest. Everyone is doing great. Just tired. Mark's suitcase however decided to go elsewhere so will hopefully meet us at our destination in Mae Sot sometime tomorrow. Hmmm. The irony!  When I was telling everyone to pack extra underwear and needed toiletries in their carry on just in case their luggage didn't make it, Mark was the one who said "That never happens."  
Huh. The girls and I all offered to let him borrow clothes for tomorrow's flight but he's turned us down. :).  Love you babe. You are being a very good sport with all of our taunting. 

Bangkok- Almost: Airplane #4


We are going to land in Bangkok in approximately 30 minutes. We are all very tired of being on an airplane. Hopefully customs goes smoothly and we can then take a cab across the city to our hotel which is at our next airport. Then we can rest for a few hours before getting on the next plane to Mae Sot.   Mark has worked on the curriculum for his Social Entrepreneur class constantly since he left Fargo. I think his first class is with a group in Mae Sot in a couple days. 


Monday, July 28, 2014

The flight to LA


Day 1- Plane # 3 :Tune in Tokyo

We've just boarded plane #3 on our journey.  We are in LA and leaving soon heading for Tokyo.  The food at LAX was definitely less than impressive. We have been very spoiled by the clean, sprawling airport in Minneapolis from past trips. Earlier we merely exited our plane and speed walked to our next gate to board so we didn't have time to wander around and look at the art. I found no art at all around our LAX terminal.